Memphis, I Love You.

Recently, during our vacation, I got a peek into what Sam’s life is like on a daily basis with Memphis. Yes, I am aware of what happens when he is home, but being on the go, out in public, and caring for him day in and day out was experienced a little differently while we were traveling.

I honestly believe that Memphis hated the drive through Kansas as much as we did.

The funny thing about Memphis and his sweet personality is that he tends to act like his dad at times.

A little huff here and there—well, that sends me into a giggle fit.

It is almost as if one of the adults or humans is making the sound for him, but it really is him (same with snoring, btw).

A friend of mine pointed out that it is Assistance Dog Week. Something I didn’t even know existed. I do know that our sweet Memphis (our = family–because he’s changed us all) gives Sam endless love, support, kisses, and also the best cuddles.

I can tell you all, from seeing what takes place on a day to day basis that Sam’s life has been transformed. We have moments where the panic and anxiety creeps in (last night–at a new student orientation at our son’s school), but Memphis can sense when Sam needs him. I know there are moments when they need a break, or when Memphis needs a day off. It can be challenging for Memphis at times–and the great thing about the relationship he and Sam have is that they both know when “enough is enough.”

Memphis is a great boy. He alerts Sam when anxiety is high, when Sam is stressed, and even at night when Sam is struggling. He can also open doors, retrieve, fetch, and of course, cuddle.

We still have moments where being in public with Memphis is a first for some people. It has been a struggle at times to provide kindness and education, but it is necessary for people to know when Memphis has his vest on he is a working dog.

Sam and Memphis are a team. It is important to note that when Memphis is with Sam it is not okay to make noises or distract Memphis. He has an important job to do. Please also try not to baby talk at Memphis (or other service dogs).

Please don’t be offended if and when you see us out and Sam says “no, he can’t have that _____.” We’ve had people try to feed Memphis some popcorn or something that’s dropped off the floor. Memphis does love food (and fits right in with our family because of that), but he is on a very restricted diet with a certain type of food and treats. He’s also trained not to eat things off of the floor. I’m always amazed when people see us out in a restaurant and think he’s going to hop up at the table and eat what we do—nope.

Not every person with a service dog wants to be a “show-and-tell” exhibit. We’ve had people encounter us out and about and flat out ask Sam what’s wrong with him, why he has Memphis, and if Memphis was in the military. I understand that it is confusing at times, or people are just curious. But, it is still uneasy for Sam to be asked “what’s wrong with you?” It’s not easy to talk about disabilities, or war at times, so please be mindful of that—especially if you see a Veteran with a service dog.

I love Memphis. I love that Sam has become a more comfortable person with Memphis in his life. We’ve had ups and downs. There are still good and bad days–but it sure makes this journey so exciting and fun with Memphis in it. He’s most loved—even when he’s stubborn or snoring—he’s a blessing.

And for that we are forever grateful.

We like to capture moments with Memphis. These are some of my most favorite pictures and memories that I hold dear in my heart.