I thought I would try something new for this post…I am going to ask Sam if he can give a list or a variety of five things he would like people to know about Veterans or Service Dogs.
Me: “Okay Sam, I’m going to ask you a few things for the blog readers.”
Sam: “Pretty much Memphis is awesome?”
Seriously…here we go (these are the real responses from Sam).
1. Veterans are non-traditional adults. They had to be an adult first in some ways more than an adult (does this make sense). Unlike most teens or young people, Veterans had to adapt to an adult lifestyle very quickly and at a young age. In some cases, Veterans have taken more responsibility than adults at a young age.
2. There is more to a Veteran than the uniform. For example, I put together an art show that allowed people to see that Veterans can be artistic and show/express a creative side, one that may show what their war expereinces. Veterans are more than “things they carry,” we carry more than an image–fathers, wives, electricians, teachers–once the uniform goes on those seem to disappear. Veterans are unique and have a lot of various hobbies and expereinces.
3. Just because a Veteran has a service dog it does not make them any less of a person. Service dogs are a tool, a way to help Veterans adapt to a new lifestyle that they lost, brainwashed out of–like brainwashed through PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder), TBI (traumatic brain injury), or even what the military imposes on men and women.
4. Sometimes people don’t realize that dogs need days off. Like today, Memphis stayed home with “mom” to do some DIY projects. People at work asked where he was…I guarantee people at work don’t ask where I am when I’m off, or not there. Memphis works hard through the week, and I can tell if he’s sort of had it, or if he just needs a break. Maybe he just wants to lay on the couch, ya know.
5. One of my favorite things to do with Memphis is walk at work. So, at the VA we have a track/walking path, and he gets to walk on lunch with me. I love it when he runs off, then he comes back and tries to juke me, then he will nudge my right leg. It is like our little fun time, and I love that he runs full speed and slows up a little when he gets to me. It is our time to talk, to relax. We talk about work or what we will do when we get home. I like that he has a good personality.
*There you have it. Five things Sam would like you to know about what it is like being a Veteran with a service dog. I had fun talking with him, and I hope we can do another “five things” again sometime soon.
We are so blessed. I love hearing Sam talk about his days with Memphis–what they did at work, their drive to work and home. Seeing them interact is a joy–they light up my life.